Question 1

Is Rentmen Sydney legit?

Accepted Answer

Over the last decade, sex workers and escorts have lost access to many of the services and systems that allow them to work safely. With Rentboy shut down in 2015, the backup choice for many gay escorts in Australia was Rentmen. While it has continued to exist, many users report fewer views and connections compared to Rentboy.

Rent.men is a legitimate site, though I strongly encourage users to keep their private communications away from the internal RM messaging system.

Question 2

Is it safe to hire escort service/massage services from Mintboys or Rentboy Australia?

Accepted Answer

It is largely quite safe to hire escorts or companions from sites like Rentmen, Friendboy.pro, or Mintboys. Use your common sense and do some research before making any big jumps.

It is absolutely not safe to use internal message services like RM Messenger, particularly if you are a US citizen who may be traveling to Sydney or Melbourne for business or pleasure. Messages exchanged there are immediately and forever the property of whatever website you are using, and may easily be turned over to authorities with a reasonable law enforcement request. Internal message systems are often not encrypted, meaning anyone with access to the workings or backend of the website could view any messages ever sent.

If you have communicated this way in the past, I suggest fully deleting the account you used, and creating a new one with a different email address and username. This will not remove previous messages – this is not possible – but it will prevent making a bad situation worse.

Question 3

How much should you pay a Sydney male escort?

Accepted Answer

Male escorts are, by and large, independent providers who set their own rules, hours, and rates. You should always go into an engagement fully clear on the rates and any rules or guidelines the escort may have offered you. These are generally provided to make sure everyone has an enjoyable experience and feels respected long after the encounter has concluded.

If you’re looking for general Sydney escort rates, pop over to Rent.Men Sydney and have a look at the average hourly consideration. This isn’t meant to be a bargaining tool – you should never bargain or try to haggle for someone’s time – but rather as a way to see what the Sydney or Melbourne male escort market looks like and what clients typically pay.

Question 4

Where can you find couples escorts in Sydney or Melbourne?

Accepted Answer

Male escorts who see couples are more common than you might expect. Lots of straight male escorts will only see men if they are part of a MF couple, and state this clearly in their websites or advertisements.

It is important to be respectful of escort preferences, so do your homework first. If someone doesn’t say they absolutely welcome couples, ask well ahead of time and never spring “oh, and here’s my partner/wife/husband/friend as well!” on someone last minute.

Question 5

Will male escorts that advertise as gay also see women?

Accepted Answer

Yet another “it’s complicated!” answer.

Many times, yes. But it is important that you be up front with anybody you plan to meet. If you are unsure about what a particular male escort’s tastes or rules are, see if they have an etiquette page that might answer your question. If not, reach out and simply be honest: are you a male escort who sees women?

If they are, have fun! If not, don’t take it personally and start the male escort search again. If you believe all the Australian news magazine profiles of male escorts in the last 5-10 years, there's no shortage of straight male escorts or travel companions like myself.

I know that, in terms of male escorts or anything else, Sydney and Melbourne are worlds apart. But if I’m coming to Australia, I’m making the most of it and seeing everything these incredible cities have to offer.

Melbourne and Perth and Adelaide – a dream vacation for anyone.

I know that, in terms of male escorts or anything else, Sydney and Melbourne are worlds apart. But if I’m coming to Australia, I’m making the most of it and seeing everything these incredible cities have to offer.

Melbourne and Perth and Adelaide – a dream vacation for anyone.

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