I find that, firstly, a single hour is almost never enough to get to know you and to allow a natural build to develop. And secondly, I don’t want to have to watch the clock; I want to think about us, not my next stop that evening.
To that end, I’ve created a couple of unclocked experiences that will let us get to be friends without all the rush or pressure.
If you can spare the time, why hurry? In an afternoon we can talk and get to know one another. That affords us all sorts of time to lead ourselves into other activities at a natural, organic clip. I love getting to talk to guys about what gets them going while we’re both still dressed and civilized. Especially in public – let’s go get lunch or take in a matinee. There’s nothing hotter than the social restraints of being in mixed company.
Overnights are my favorites. The idea that you’ll be all mine all night is such a turn on. And while I usually do need to sleep a realistic amount, the gift of waking up in the morning in a big, comfy bed with someone who’s ready for more is absolutely magical.
Sometimes it’s not realistic to spend a whole evening together, and I understand that. Trust me when I say I’m glad for whatever time I get to spend with you, and I’m more than happy to swing by your private office, hotel, or home after work for a little more focused time than other experiences may offer (doesn’t even have to be during lunchtime! But think how clever you’ll sound declining an invitation because you have a lunch meeting with me).
It can be totally intimidating to meet someone for the first time, knowing that playtime can be a complete gamble of chemistry and experience and comfort. Sometimes it can be a stress reliever to know that it’s ‘just dinner’ and that there’s no pressure or reason for anxiety. I’m more than happy to meet you for a meal or coffee while we get to know each other a little bit. I’m a firm believer that you can sense chemistry through conversation. Let’s get a bite and see how we click before you invest in a longer session.
I’m available for travel internationally and while I have a set day rate, please note that it does not include travel expenses, or accommodation. If you’ve got a trip in mind, let’s discuss. While I don’t negotiate my rates, I find that there’s always an arrangement that everyone is comfortable with when it comes to vacations (I’ve always got some suggestions for weekend getaways for two, if you need any inspiration. Just ask!).
Additionally, if you’re coming to town, and I don’t need to travel at all, I’m available for exclusive arrangements (all yours, all the time) at this same rate. This can be a great way to avoid making several different appointments during your stay, and keep our momentum focused properly.
