I can’t wait for you to connect.

You’re about to take the first steps toward bringing us together in real life. Whether we’ve met before, or whether this will be our first time—I can’t wait!

Here’s some places to find quick answers to common questions, so that we can get right to the good stuff: this is my calendar, so you’ll always know where I’ll be and when I’m likely available to meet.

These are my rates. Remember that some packaged include travel costs and some do not. When in doubt, I hope you’ll ask.

These are the rules of engagement (along with some conversation starters, if you’re feeling nervous).

These are some photos of me from all sides and angles, so you’ll never need to ask for more.

Remember, too:

I can’t often accommodate same day appointments. It never hurts to ask, but it always helps to plan ahead.

In Berlin I do not offer incalls in my home. When I travel however, I frequently go to pains to be able to invite guests over to my comfortable and inconspicuous apartment or hotel. If I’m coming to you, I hope you’ll give me notice of house rules (shoes off?) or of something (wine you enjoy? Last minute supplies?) which I might bring as a gift for my host.

I’m so excited. Are you?

Initial Contact Options

I’m a modern boy and I don’t enjoy talking on the phone. I also go to great lengths to make sure our communications—no matter how they take place—are as secure and safe from prying eyes (and ears) as possible. Your help makes that work a little bit easier, even if your life is more of an open book.

Here are the best options for a first contact

Email

An email introduction to a new friend is always preferred. It allows some time to process new feelings and ideas, and gives me a chance to reply in the way I believe I often come across best: in writing. There is nothing more romantic than a surprise love letter in my inbox from a new friend to enjoy over my morning coffee.

Consider establishing a ProtonMail account for any private communications. I use Proton for all my email needs. Any email you receive from me is powered by Proton. The service is fast and free, and messages sent between Proton users can be permanently deleted by time delay. This allows us to speak candidly without worrying we’ll forget to clean up later.

tyler@tylerthebadwolf.com

Texting

Traditional SMS texting is one of the easiest protocols to hack and spoof. I don’t text, even with family, and I suggest everyone avoid it for important things where possible.

I love messengers like Telegram, Signal, and Wire. If you’re already on one of those platforms, I would be glad to connect with you there (email for my contact number on Signal or find me as @tylerthebadwolf on both Wire and Telegram).

If you aren’t sure where to begin with encrypted messengers, here’s how to get started quickly on Telegram (fast, free, and end to end encrypted in Secret Chat). As a bonus or incentive, I’ll be glad to add you to my private uncensored Telegram channel once you’re set up—just ask.

Escort Contact FAQs

I won’t have answered everything on this page. But here are some more common questions about how to contact me.

Will you ever contact (email/text/call) me first?

I will never initiate contact with you. I don’t have many unbending rules, but the ones I maintain are designed to protect both our privacy. I do not find it appropriate for service providers of any kind to proactively contact without you being in complete control over it. That isn’t how professional services work (imagine an attorney cold calling you to find out if perhaps you wanted to sue anybody this week).

It is impossible for me to know if your situation has changed, or who might be looking over your shoulder at just the wrong moment. For discretion’s sake, you will always need to initiate contact if you want to be in touch.

The one exception here is my email list, the subscription to which you always control completely. You may subscribe or unsubscribe at any time, anonymously and without question.

How long will it take for you to reply?

There’s no set answer to this. I’ll always do my best to quickly address kind and respectful messages in less than a day or so. But I’m not a corporation and my one-man-band operation makes the best progress I can through the inbox each available day. Keep in mind it will take longer if I’m traveling or otherwise engaged. After all, you wouldn’t want me spending hours emailing during our time together, would you?

Remember it’s never you, should there be a delay. I’m only distracted.

Why would an escort not contact back?

There are any number of answers to this question, but it’s important to try not to take it personally. Often times, very successful escorts may be too busy to reply at a pace you think is appropriate. They may also be dealing with real life while you are waiting and simply don’t have the bandwidth to engage right now.

If you are certain there has been a problem or error, I suggest trying one alternative contact point (if you’ve sent an email, drop a quick note on Wire or Signal), simply stating you’re very interested in meeting, but haven’t yet received a reply. Always be polite. Always assume that it has nothing to do with you personally.

How best to contact an escort?

I have outlined the two best methods for me just above this FAQ.

It is very rare that you will encounter an escort ad or an escort website that will not say directly how to be in touch. If you have to struggle to find the best method of communication, it’s a sign that something might be amiss. Reliable professional male and female escorts try to streamline this as much as possible, and will direct you to the best contact point.

No matter what: if an escort says “please contact me here/this way,” follow their instructions. It is very likely they are there for a reason.

Is it safe to hire escort service/massage services from Rentmen?

It is largely quite safe to hire escorts or companions from sites like Rentmen, Friendboy.pro, or Mintboys. Use your common sense and do some research before making any big jumps.

It is absolutely not safe to use internal message services like RM Messenger. Messages exchanged there are immediately and forever the property of whatever website you are using, and may easily be turned over to authorities with a reasonable law enforcement request. Internal message systems are often not encrypted, meaning anyone with access to the workings or backend of the website could view any messages ever sent.

If you have communicated this way in the past, I suggest fully deleting the account used, and creating a new one with a different email address and new username. This will not remove previous messages—this is not possible—but it will stop making a bad situation worse.

Do I have the right to insist on encrypted communication with an escort?

I believe that you do. I also think that anyone who takes their work seriously will not be offended to accommodate a request like this for both your safety. If a male escort insists on using regular SMS texting, WhatsApp, or Direct Messages on Instagram or Twitter, it might be a sign that they aren’t ready to respect the needs of important clients in a real way. Tread carefully.

Do you have a phone number that I may call?

I do not.

Where once it was commonplace to list a phone number in escort advertising, and even to research the reviews and experiences of an escort by searching that phone number, times have very much changed. Traditional phone calling and texting are a liability for even the most basic personal communications.

Signal, Wire, and Telegram each offer a host of features designed to mimic the calling and texting experience, while incorporating end to end encryption designed to keep you safe. Our privacy—yours and mine—is worth more now than ever before. Let’s protect it.

Read more about how to keep us both safe.

Are you on WhatsApp?

I am not.

While WhatsApp does employ reliable encryption technology, they remain wholly owned and controlled by Facebook. Facebook tracks metadata between WhatsApp and Facebook and Instagram (as well as many other apps you use on your phone), collects location data and identifying information. WhatsApp reserves the right to maintain that collected data for as long as it deems relevant (i.e. forever).

Will our emails automatically be secure since you use ProtonMail?

Almost, but not quite.

Emails sent between Proton accounts are demonstrably and reliably encrypted using the same technology your bank would to protect private information. We can even set them to self destruct at a later date and time.

Emails sent to me from another address (gmail, AOL, HotMail) will only be safe from my side, and our entire conversation is at risk the minute it leaves my mailbox.

Consider signing up for a free ProtonMail account now, and continue to use it with me or any time you think you need some extra caution.

Read the full list of frequently asked questions here.

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